1. How to win yourself

“He that can have patience can have what he will”

                                                                                            –Benjamin Franklin

Our mother world has a total human population of 9 billion, this includes 30%  of old Peoples and 20% of kids, remaining 50% are adults of both genders. Among this 50% of adult humans many of them have a deep penetrating doubt on their mind about their own will power. 

Constantly there was a question wandering on their mind, and that question pop up on every single day during their work in office, while playing with their kids, while facing any difficult period, while coming across an emotional situation or even While carrying out their usual work day by day. 

They don’t know the answer for that question and they are leading their life with that question,

Why can’t I able to what i can be ?

Simply. Why i cant able to achieve  what i have planned?

More simply. i cant able to execute or attain, as i planned?

Our religion and philosophers preached us that every person in this universe is unique and he is capable to attain what he wants regardless of his circumstances.  As the truth is as above, but still we hear people saying

How can I fix my son’s struggle with his studies?

How can i attain a decent position in this society?

How can i generate more income? And so on..,

Mr “X” took a new year resolution as to reduce his weight 5 kg this year.
Mrs. “Y” planned to start a new business to earn more money for their financial needs.
Mr. “Z” decided to quit smoking habit for his health and family benefits.

But they can’t able to execute their plan. They follow their diet or plan for 1 week or 10 days and forget. ( if you are not like that this article is not for you).

Those above examples not only suits to Mr.x y and z but also to us, there are so many Mr. x y and z in this world including us.

There are more number of center for motivation and change our lives, business motivation, bodybuilding motivation, all the purpose of those are to re harness our thoughts and push us to success.

Arnold Schwarzenegger started weight lifting at 15 years old. He won the Mr. Universe title at the age of 20 and went ahead to win the Mr. Olympia challenge seven times, remaining a noticeable nearness in lifting weights and he composed many books and articles on the motivation. There is a term called "Arnold Schwarzenegger motivation". I am a big fan of him.

There are lots of books available in book stores like "How to win a business, how to think positively? How to make more money? How to win relationship? How to reduce weight? How to develop your personality" and so on.  And of course we have read that books many times and thought from tomorrow that everything will change. But is it changed? Did we get what we needed?

If we really need to find a solution for this question, We have to answer it from our heart. Apart from some people many lack something or some qualities or characters, which not allowing them to attain or to achieve what they expected, what they planned. But what is that set of qualities lacking inside them to not allowing them to attain or execute as they planned?

Assume. You planned to wake up tomorrow early morning for jogging and you are done with what you have planned and reduced your weight without mental struggle.

You planned to start business for more financial income and you are done with that. Wow!!

You planned to develop your personality and you are done with that.
This is as simple as whatever you plan you are achieving that position without inner struggling.

How sweet  :-) ☺

Is that possible?  Can i get what i need? Am i able to attain what i have planned?

The big answer is YES.

Now the good news is you can attain or achieve whatever u want regardless of your circumstances, you may be poor, in financial disaster, with broken heart or whatever, if you follow the chapters in this article you can be what you can be. 

This article will bridge the gap between your desire and reality. 

This is all about making your character, it explains the required qualities you needed chapter by chapter and by step by step procedure. But it required your full attention chapter by chapter and i have added small stories to fully understand the moral qualities needed.

Now you are in the right path of life by forming your character to attain what you want.

Just follow the chapters and you are done.

Happy reading 

Chapter 1 : Being ego less

Chapter 2 : Emptying your cup

Chapter 3 : Know yourself

Chapter 4 : Erasing impressions

Chapter 5 : Forming constraints

Chapter 6 : Building positive attitude

START here with " Being Ego less "